help.

Dear Ladies,
Let me start by saying I address you as a lady so hopefully you act as such. Now,STOP TEARING THESE MEN DOWN. They truly need our support even though they may not seem they do. Don't crush their pride or bruise their egos.one single word or tone or facial
expression can send a man into a
hole so deep you'd have better luck finding osama. A man ’ s ego is
vulnerable , especially to a woman he finds value in , such that he could be crushed , even by accident.Be a good listener ! Take interest in what he
has to say to you and try to give your 100 %
attention to him when he talks .let he is smart and that you
value what he has to say. Do not pounce
on him every time he makes a mistake. Although he may act as superman,we know he's only human. Love him,care. That's what he needs. Uplift him.

Love,
Rai

QotD;Nov.15th

"Fall Seven Times,Get Up Eight."

-Japanese Proverb

Letter from Your Masterpiece: Letter to the World

Dear World,


I am only human. I am God's child but not God himself. I am not perfect and do not wish to be so. I strive to do my best,for my unborn,my city,my future,my past, and my foundation. I can't hold the world on my shoulders no matter how hard I try but I promise I won't let you fall. I'll always be honest. I'll always care.But while I'm working hard,I won't conform to you. Nor for you. I'll adapt to my surroundings but only for the better. I can only be me. No Less. Always more. because I know what I'm worth. So world,I won't disappoint you as you.



--Forever,

Your Masterpiece

B WORD.

"I'm in love with your business."

Ambitious girl, the drive-drive me crazy

I’m tryna stay with you, lay with you

I’ll pay you tuition, pray with you if you aint intuition

I’m tryna f-ck the sh-t out your aspirations

See, the last one I dated, I hated

We wake up, i go to work, she leave out

Come back with some make up, high heels, and a purse, or

Worse I ask, “Babygirl, what you aspire to be?”

She reply to me like, “why you perspiring me?” b-tch..

Pardon me if I’m sweating you but,

I wanna see something else in you before I invest in you

Ambitious girl, (what you sitting for)

I’d rather you tell me to hit you later,

Because you gotta finish a paper

Then to be in my face asking for a rozay cup

See these bxtches can’t cut in yo business

I’m in love with your business

And your productivity is the reason I intrest, ambitious girl

See, I like the person that you are,

But I’m in love with the person that you have potential to be

and all your dreams sharing with me

and your secrets baring with me

and the flaws, you aint even got to mention to me,

Ambitious girl, you just wanna win, and you’d rather chase your dreams,

Then to try to chase these men

That try to chase these skirts

That try to chase these shots with flavors that not even as sweet as her

My ambitious girl, I wont forget you,

I just reflect on how I aint met you, yet boo

You somewhere, getting your life in order

So for the time being, i hope this might support her

Support her, or work her, she worth it

Go Girl. Go Girl.

Go Girl.

-Thanks Wale.

Starting Line Up:Where There Are Questions,There are Answers.

The questions that come with this are usually;

Does my other have a team?

Am I on THE Team?

Should I have a team?

First questions first, NOT EVERYBODY HAS A TEAM. --Personally, I don't.-- Some people do. If your other has opposite sex friends,believe they are just that. Unless,it is an overactive friendship.There might be several of these people depending on your partner. If you are curious,Ask. You do have the right to know,especially if you are uncertain.

Are you on THE Team? HMM.....chances are yes. But where? That you won't know until the obvious factors arise. S/He,if they have a team, might have fill you are or aren't qualified for a positions until they better know you,understand you, or loose/gain a member. As the coach,they are looking for whoever will better benefit them.Always keep that in mind. 

You don't need a team. Let me say it again,YOU DON'T NEED A TEAM. If you are in a good relationship or forming a good relationship,this is totally unnecessary. This is where TRUST comes in. Although your partner may not have all of your trust, it is ok to leave everyone behind if you feel its right. Also, If you have other motives such as education and a career, you don't need a team. Remember these are first priorities. Your partner should never interfere with your goals,ambitions,dreams,etc.

 God is always your number 1 player.

***Don't assume anything. You may not be on THE Team. S/He may not have a team. You don't need a team. Don't ruin a good relationship because of insecurities. This article is not here for that. It is for pure entertainment and truth.***

Starting Line Up

Lately it's been alot ALOT of talk about cuffing season and "THE Team".

What is THE Team?

• “The Team”: all members are someone of interest on one of the several possible levels outlined below
  ~ Self explanatory usage. In short, it’s where you want to be.

Who Is one THE Team?

 #TEAMTerminology 

• “Might make the draft”: When a person is seen to have potential,they might make the draft. Team Owner is still deciding whether or not to draft them for The Team.
• ~ “Met this guy on Saturday – tall, handsome, smart…if he’s single, he might make the draft.”

• “In the game”: you’re playing well, probably getting regular dates, either haven’t screwed up (making you part of the starting line-up) or have rectified a screw up well enough to retain your status and still have potential
• ~ “Oh, Clifford? He’s in the game – we had dinner Wednesday and I’m seeing him again on Friday.” 

• “On the bench”: you are on The Team, but on the sidelines either as punishment and having been downgraded, or a simple “time out” due to better players in the game – there just isn’t room for everyone in every game. 
• ~ “Bad news: I had to bench the new guy. Blew up my phone and left 3 voicemails in one hour. We don’t get down like that.”

• ”Team Captain”: you are the LeBron, the front runner for Winter Boo status and considered an MVP. Don’t get it twisted though. See that full bench behind you? They’re ready to take your spot. Stay sharp!
• ~ “He sent my favorite flower, loves my writing, and can make 

• “Visiting All-Star”: you are worthy of being on The Team and are rarely benched or traded, rather allowed to get in the game when the team schedule allows. You are a Free Agent, and The Team is not trying to sign you to a contract. You are only asked to show up and suit up on game day.
• ~ “Nah, I’m coming to the party solo. XYZ is just a visiting all-star, he’s not my man.”

• “Cleared the Bench”: got rid of the “standbys”. This can happen for any number of reasons, including the request of a particularly special Team Captain or even just a general want to upgrade the talent. As Team Owner, I might just go and clear it out of being underwhelmed. Can’t have a losing team, and an empty bench beats losers sitting on it.  Team Owner can draft again when moved to do so.
• ~Self explanatory usage. I told everyone to STEP!

• “Traded”: got rid of one, replaced with another – even a benched player CAN be traded for another benched player
• ~ “Yeah, he didn’t last. Had to trade him before we even got to the second date.”

This,ladies and gentlemen, is THE Team.